The third I was solely talking about two people, not everyone with an addiction or going through a rough time in life. Two people in my life, that I was very close with, that I tried to help but would not take my words into consideration. People that single handedly and maliciously tried to drag me down into the life they created of drugs and rock bottom, with no thought to get better for me or for themselves. People that made me believe they were safe to be with, people who swore to protect me from harm, right before raping me or feeding me more drugs, or both.
So no, I’m not judgmental at all and I really feel for these people who are in such dark places, and cannot get out, because it’s not who they really are. They’re sweet people, I’ve seen the good side of them, but they refuse to acknowledge the positivity in life.
Obviously my answer to that third question came out the wrong way. I hope you can see it more in my perspective now. But I’ve tried to help these people already in the very best ways I could think of. But overall them just not being in my life is the much needed and deserved solution, for everyone.
I do wish they could get better. But they need to want to get better. It can’t just be done for them.